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This dog feels pretty close to how I’m gonna feel in two months. I can’t wait!

homecoming military reunion lance

Tue, April 5th 2011

Don’t Ask Don’t Tell

Today I emailed my state senators to ask them to help repeal Don’t Ask Don’t Tell. As a military wife, I believe it is imperative that this law is removed. I’ve included the text of my email below.

Dear Senator Hatch,

My name is Dana Igo and I am a 22 year old military wife. I live with my husband in Salt Lake City and have been a resident of Utah all of my life.

I am emailing you to ask that you please help repeal Don’t Ask Don’t Tell. I find that this law is not constitutional and as someone that works to uphold the constitution, I hope you will agree.

DADT violates the first and fifth amendment rights of gays and lesbians. As citizens of the United States of America they are guaranteed the rights to free speech, open association and right to due process. By discharging outed homosexuals based on what they do in the privacy of their own homes, the United States military is revoking these rights.

Please understand that this is not a matter of personal belief. Regardless of your moral values, it should be clear that the sexual orientation of a person does not determine whether or not they can perform a job. Nor, should it interfere with a person’s constitutional rights. This is a civil rights issue, not a moral one.

As the wife of an enlisted soldier and a voting constituent of Utah, I ask that you please consider the needs of our military forces, both straight and gay. DADT promotes dishonesty in a service that permits none. DADT shames hard working soldiers. DADT strips our military of necessary manpower. DADT hurts everyone involved.

Vote to repeal Don’t Ask Don’t Tell and help restore honor to our military.

Sincerely,
Dana Igo

Don't Ask Don't Tell DADT Military Gay Rights Civil Rights Orrin Hatch Bob Bennett Democracy Letters

Tue, November 16th 2010

Found: Note between Lance and I from a military marriage workshop

  • Me:  Too many upset children. Lots o' babies.
  • Lance:  Welcome to Utah.
  • Me:  Let's move.
  • Lance:  to Iraq.
  • Me:  We have all the danger signs already. :(
  • Lance:  I would guess most couples do my dear.
  • Me:  Ya but...I love you.
  • Lance:  I love you too.
  • Me:  Let's be in love forever.
  • Lance:  Celestial marriage?
  • Me:  Yes. I know the Mormon church is true.
  • Lance:  We better go talk to the Chaplain.
  • Me:  Will he prepare us for a temple marriage where we can be sealed for all eternity?
  • Lance:  He'd send us to the bishop.
  • Me:  Oh...let's be Mormons.
  • Lance:  Ok.
  • Me:  Cuz, God is real and Jesus died for us and Joseph Smith is a true prophet.
  • Lance:  Exactly.
  • Me:  Remember when I escalated cause you wouldn't say something in Farsi? That was bad.
  • Lance:  Yep.
  • Me:  My tum hurts.
  • Lance:  :(
  • Me:  I hope I don't forget to take this paper, 'cause otherwise someone will get a funny convo.
  • Lance:  Yep, we're in grade school again.
  • Me:  But, we're cute. Also, be nice.
  • Lance:  ?
  • Me:  You keep making it seem like you're mean with your comments. And you aren't mean. But, I guess you are joking, but it's not funny.
  • Lance:  I disagree.
  • Me:  Why?
  • Lance:  I'm hilarious.
  • Me:  Often times you are but I think it's inappropriate to joke about.
  • Lance:  You're wrong, duh.
  • Me:  You are displaying negative communication signs!
  • Lance:  Prove it.
  •  I miss him.

Lance Me Convo Love Silly Military Marriage

Wed, October 13th 2010

Soldier’s goodbye & Bobbie the cat, 1939-1945 by Sam Hood
I love this photo. I can’t wait to kiss Lance.

Soldier’s goodbye & Bobbie the cat, 1939-1945 by Sam Hood

I love this photo. I can’t wait to kiss Lance.

love military kiss cat

Tue, September 21st 2010